Why do we always listen to what people say, when we communicate verbally; only seven percent of the time. I think  a way to figure out how someone feels about you, is to look at their actions and not their words, basically hit the  mute button,  don’t listen to a thing they say to you,  watch and see what they say. I have from time to time thought about what I just said,  it’s finally starting to  make sense, yes I watch people. My wife, my niece and I were having a talk about how we’ve  been treated so badly by  the people who claim to love us, and “say” they want to  see us do well.  But its their actions that are doing the real speaking, and you know as well as me, people will treat you like shit.  Just an observation.